Comments on: Not Even Impending Death Can End Bitter Feelings http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2007/11/26/not-even-impending-death-can-end-bitter-feelings/ IS IT CRAZY IN HERE, OR IS IT JUST ME? Tue, 07 Oct 2008 15:10:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=MU hourly 1 By: ocdiva http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2007/11/26/not-even-impending-death-can-end-bitter-feelings/#comment-15 ocdiva Wed, 28 Nov 2007 01:57:36 +0000 http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2007/11/27/not-even-impending-death-can-end-bitter-feelings/#comment-15 I know that you are right. I am going to end up with cancer myself if I don't chill out. It bothers me how callous I actually am. I have the same problem with my abusive father. I don't carry it around with me, but I can't just "let it go..." Maybe it's just a wall I've put up so nothing hurts. I know that you are right. I am going to end up with cancer myself if I don’t chill out. It bothers me how callous I actually am. I have the same problem with my abusive father. I don’t carry it around with me, but I can’t just “let it go…” Maybe it’s just a wall I’ve put up so nothing hurts.

]]> By: notfrommars http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2007/11/26/not-even-impending-death-can-end-bitter-feelings/#comment-14 notfrommars Tue, 27 Nov 2007 16:19:28 +0000 http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2007/11/27/not-even-impending-death-can-end-bitter-feelings/#comment-14 People make mistakes. Large ones. Huge ones. Whether you give them a second chance is purely up to you. Does it matter that things turned badly for her? It might to her. She might realize the mistake she made; she might not. Either way, my advice to you would be to let the hate go in your heart. To what end do you hold it? What's to gain by it? I understand that you went out of your way for her and felt betrayed. From the sound of it, that was the end of the relationship. So, let it go. Don't regret what you did; you did the right thing. Instead pity that she's not a good enough person to have realized what she threw away. People make mistakes. Large ones. Huge ones. Whether you give them a second chance is purely up to you. Does it matter that things turned badly for her? It might to her. She might realize the mistake she made; she might not. Either way, my advice to you would be to let the hate go in your heart. To what end do you hold it? What’s to gain by it?

I understand that you went out of your way for her and felt betrayed. From the sound of it, that was the end of the relationship. So, let it go. Don’t regret what you did; you did the right thing. Instead pity that she’s not a good enough person to have realized what she threw away.

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