Comments on: Tears Unlimited http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2008/02/03/tears-unlimited/ IS IT CRAZY IN HERE, OR IS IT JUST ME? Fri, 29 Aug 2008 02:16:03 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=MU hourly 1 By: naomi h. http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2008/02/03/tears-unlimited/#comment-167 naomi h. Thu, 14 Feb 2008 15:51:25 +0000 http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2008/02/03/tears-unlimited/#comment-167 I just stumbled across your blog and am in awe of your writing and your vulnerability. I won't add anything to the other commenters for this specific post as they covered it all beautifully. The sun will shine again, even if it feels you only get to see it momentarily at times. I just stumbled across your blog and am in awe of your writing and your vulnerability. I won’t add anything to the other commenters for this specific post as they covered it all beautifully. The sun will shine again, even if it feels you only get to see it momentarily at times.

]]> By: ocdiva http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2008/02/03/tears-unlimited/#comment-156 ocdiva Mon, 04 Feb 2008 21:58:19 +0000 http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2008/02/03/tears-unlimited/#comment-156 Thanks for your kind words and thoughts, guys. I really appreciate you both, and it means a lot to me that you care. Peace, Sonja Thanks for your kind words and thoughts, guys. I really appreciate you both, and it means a lot to me that you care. Peace,

Sonja

]]> By: Matthew http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2008/02/03/tears-unlimited/#comment-154 Matthew Mon, 04 Feb 2008 16:36:36 +0000 http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2008/02/03/tears-unlimited/#comment-154 Sonja, I love you, my friend, and my heart aches with you. If I could, I would wrap you up in love and hold you while you cry. I am praying for you and your family. May HE who holds the whole world, hold you tighter than ever before. Matt (with a box of tissues) Sonja,

I love you, my friend, and my heart aches with you. If I could, I would wrap you up in love and hold you while you cry. I am praying for you and your family. May HE who holds the whole world, hold you tighter than ever before.

Matt (with a box of tissues)

]]> By: Pammy Girl http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2008/02/03/tears-unlimited/#comment-149 Pammy Girl Mon, 04 Feb 2008 00:59:22 +0000 http://ocdiva.wordpress.com/2008/02/03/tears-unlimited/#comment-149 I was destroyed when my parents got a divorce. I was 28. It's been 7 years and the tears are always next to the surface, ready to betray my confidence. But just because you cry doesn't mean you're no longer strong. When a marriage dissolves, it must be viewed as a death. While we realize life could no longer go on the way things were (the destruction, emotional exhaustion, depression, anxiety and what have you), we mourn for the past and the feelings of love, comfort, and stability. I don't envy what the next few months will bring for you. You will always have that hole in your heart. Your son will feel torn and somewhat misplaced. But you are strong. You can get through this. You will have days where you won't be able to get out of bed and hope the earth swallows you whole. But one day you'll get up, to the dishes, put on make up, get your windshield wipers changed, pick up some milk and not even realize that a new day come. I was destroyed when my parents got a divorce. I was 28. It’s been 7 years and the tears are always next to the surface, ready to betray my confidence. But just because you cry doesn’t mean you’re no longer strong. When a marriage dissolves, it must be viewed as a death. While we realize life could no longer go on the way things were (the destruction, emotional exhaustion, depression, anxiety and what have you), we mourn for the past and the feelings of love, comfort, and stability.

I don’t envy what the next few months will bring for you. You will always have that hole in your heart. Your son will feel torn and somewhat misplaced. But you are strong. You can get through this. You will have days where you won’t be able to get out of bed and hope the earth swallows you whole. But one day you’ll get up, to the dishes, put on make up, get your windshield wipers changed, pick up some milk and not even realize that a new day come.

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